Originally Posted by
suzieq1972 
This is sooo true! Fits my FIL to a T! He is also very controlling and believes he knows everything.
DITTO!!! Don't let your FIL get to you. You're doing the best thing for you and your child. People always get funny about the money stuff. Anything you give to your A is likely to get wasted on alcohol anyway. I too have a jobless STBXAH. I'm not trying to take him to the cleaners (what's to take?), but I sure as heck am NOT going to put myself in a bad spot for someone who has checked out on his family.