Originally Posted by RufusACanal

At some point Sobergirl, you might want to stop blaming others for your own calculated decisions to return to another drink after not drinking for whatever period of time. Many of the men and women here have been chronic relapsers, I was one. The solution is simple when you are ready to accept it. Excuses and justifications are the mainstay of the Drunk. If you want what we have, do what we do; don't drink today, find God and talk with another Alcoholic, do the next right thing. Simple.

Much love Ron

Originally Posted by sobergirl77

So I thought I would share what I learned today about why I personally keep relapsing. It's pretty simple: I need to work my spiritual program every day.

I probably am not even qualified to type up this post. What do I know? I am only starting Day 3 again. But I believe the above stuff to be true, and now that I know, I am going to take some quality time every single day to pray, connect and meditate. And I truly believe that from now on, I will stay sober (one day at a time).