(((Lake)))
Gosh I sure hate to admit this, but dealt with a similar circumstance this Spring. My oldest AS called and told us his GF was pregnant. I was NOT overjoyed, and it showed in my voice because he said he could not understand WHY I wasn't happy. Gosh, he can't support himself let alone a child, and I told him so.
Supposedly, a few weeks later, she had a miscarriage. It was a terrible time for me full of emotions...as I would love to be a grandparent in the right circumstances.
On the other hand, we never know how these things will turn out, we can't view the future. We just have to have faith that it will all turn out well.
Our H.P. has a plan.
Don't put yourself into the raising the child perspective just yet, sometimes life surprises us, and things turn out ,oh so differently then what we could have ever imagined.
Either way...you're going to be a great grandparent.