I have to say that this post makes me feel so sad, because this is how I have been living with my AH for quite some time, I hope it works for you, but after a period of time, I can't do it anymore, it is too heartbreaking and I felt what is the point?? Why am I living in a house with a man where there is no love, no affection, no respect?? I had to get out because after a while it made no sense to me anymore, that is not what I felt and wanted a marriage to be...I too thought I could just continue to live this way, but it sucked the life out of me, no matter how much I pretended to think it was ok for us to live this way. So, I have filed for divorce, it's time to move on.
This is just my own thoughts and story, if it works for you...more power to you...
