Liberty - I will say LOTS of prayers for you, but I'm sure you'll be okay. I say that because of your mention of the density issue. I too have that problem and its almost a definite chance of having to return for another mammogram because of density issues. Their machines have a hard time reading dense breast tissue, at least that's how its been explained to me, BUT the first time it happened to me I did drink A LOT and that was my way of handling the stress. I would not do this now because I've found other ways to deal with stress as you have too. Drinking also will up our chances of that specific cancer or so I have read and one more GREAT reason not to drink!
Like I said I'll be praying hard for you this week and PM me if you just need to vent. You have a lot on your plate, but as you said staying busy is probably an order from above to keep you somewhat centered.