No he doesn't have a sponser yet. He has been in a methadone treatment program for almost 3 years now. He has decided to get off the methadone and live a substance free life entirely. He has come down to the wire now though and he is scared about getting off the methadone completely and it's not really very effective as far as the pain any more. The dose is too low. I am working with him to try to get him to start NA this coming week. But I thought that this would be a good place to start.
As far as me, I don't have anyone to talk to at all. I have no support system. That's why I decided to find this place and ask for some advice and some help. I can't talk to any of our friends or family. They judge me too much and object to anything I try to do.