(((Abundance)))
Good to hear you are both working on hard on your respective recoveries!!!
I was thinking about something about him lying...he probably doesn't realize he's even doing it. My dad can be very sarcastic and I HATE sarcasm. But I found out that I have apparently picked up his bad habit. It wasn't until someone pointed it out to me, though, that I was aware of it. I know ask people "PLEASE point it out when I'm being sarcastic" because I really don't like it.
Maybe just making him aware of it (not accusing, not angry, just saying "you lied and I don't like it") may help?
Good to hear things are moving along in a forward motion. Recovery, for both of you, is going to have a few steps off the path, where you slide back into old ways..lyinng for him, maybe, codie-slip for you, maybe...but when you're AWARE of it, it's a lot easier to get back on track.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy