Originally Posted by
Abundance 
So ... I make us all lunch and he is smiling at me across the table and
What do I do??????? (
I don't know how old your son is. I am going to assume he is not a pre-schooler. So maybe one of the things you might consider doing is stop making him lunch, figuratively and literally.
If he is going to relapse, he is going to relapse no matter what you do or not.