Originally Posted by
i4getsm 
I'm curiously if your AH wanted your daughter to come over that particular night. Maybe if you made a regular schedule rather than an impromptu visit, he might be more inclined to be there? He is completely in the wrong for leaving her (and the brother is NOT an acceptable adult). Just thinking he had made plans but not wanting to say no to your daughter, he let her come over. Again, trying to think of ways to allow your daughter visitation with less risk.
We already have a regular schedule set up. Every other weekend and Tuesday and Thursday evenings as his work schedule allows.
It was his weekend, it wasn't an improptu visit at all.
I actually had that gut feeling that I ignored that it wasnt a good idea and I told my daughter that I thought she should stay home with me for the night instead.
Thanks for your thoughts though.