Sounds like such a great book, FD! Gosh, if only I had back all the years I spent laying my own potential on the altar of someone ELSE'S potential. "Here you go, I won't be needing my dreams since now I have you. And some day soon, if I manipulate you enough, you'll become everything I need and nothing I don't."
Yuck.
Watch those red flags, everybody. They are gifts to you from hp, as He gently shepherds you away from those who will end up bringing you nothing but pain. Tops on my list of "Run away!!!!!" flags are people who constantly complain about other people and how they've been mistreated (bosses, ex-wives, ex-husbands) and of course nothing is ever their fault.......