It is threads like these that keep me coming back to this forum.
My relationship with xabf is over.....I am square with where I need to be at....and I have learned so much as a result. I have finally moved on.
But....life lessons never end. Learning about ourselves and loving ourselves to have the patience to not hurry ANY situation is what is best. Trusting in yourself and letting life come TO you....and knowing that you can accept joy and sorrow in your life with the same level of acceptance....and that it's all temporary.
Thank you. I am still learning.