Originally Posted by
dunerkat 
I am unsure of what to do. I found this site a few days ago and I am glad I did. I have had a miserable afternoon with my ah - i went over there and he was drinking. he was wanting me to stay the night but i realized i did not want to.
I take it you are separated?
Good for you to recognize you need to leave a situation you weren't comfortable with.
Originally Posted by
dunerkat i take care of her and he now wants my daughter to pay $200 a week for the right for me to allow her in the house.
Are you living in a separate household? That is my impression. Either way, if you do not want to charge your daughter, you don't have to. Right?
Originally Posted by
dunerkat i am so sick of feeling this way. i always wind up feeling torn and he is now beginning a new tactic - he is trying to make me feel that he is lonely, sad, etc.
i simply cannot take this anymore. my whole life is such a mess.
The As in our lives can be expert manipulators. But we can also learn to see thru it and not react. Trust in yourself and take care of yourself. You can make your life better.