again, thanks. i must say that all the other times i have left i felt so alone and helpless. even though i recently found SR, i feel much better. in the past, i would have stayed the night with him even though i knew it would be a bad choice. we all know it is very hard to stay firm in our convictions as to what is right for us when the other person is laying on the guilt or whatever it takes for them to get us back with them.
when i read the different posts i realize i am not alone and that everyone here understands how difficult this is. his addiction is alcohol, my addiction is to him and trying to fix him.