Why can't I stop giving in to him?
I am unsure of what to do. I found this site a few days ago and I am glad I did. I have had a miserable afternoon with my ah - i went over there and he was drinking. he was wanting me to stay the night but i realized i did not want to. we wound up in a fight so i left. he now is calling me trying to play upon my guilt. in the past he has alienated me from my family and he is trying to do it again. this time it is with my granddaughter. i take care of her and he now wants my daughter to pay $200 a week for the right for me to allow her in the house.
i am so sick of feeling this way. i always wind up feeling torn and he is now beginning a new tactic - he is trying to make me feel that he is lonely, sad, etc.
i simply cannot take this anymore. my whole life is such a mess.