Originally Posted by
LucyA 
It's not really so easy for some Barbara, maybe easier than a hostage situation but not always simple to do.
Yea, it is easy. Easy to start taking steps and actions rather than sitting and taking whatever is being handed out.
Now this form of easy does not mean without effort or without pain and it takes a while to get there. But we all have the keys to unlock our personal hostage situation if we choose to use them. It may take a long time even but we can do this. We are not helpless in our lives.