I am so there, sister!
I have not posted for a while but your post hit me in the heart! I am trying to make the same decision right now with my son. He has been in and out of rehab for the past 4 years. He moved out in may but is having trouble making it financially. He want to move home with me, but I don't want it. I will prayer for you right now....No one knows how hard this is except someone who has done it. the people on this forum are the best...I trust them more than many counselors. Hang in there.
krhea