Originally Posted by
bluejupiter 
Thank you all - I really hope it works. I dont know what to think though - I'm such a mellow positive happy person - this is pretty new to me.... and I dont much like it.
I will keep in touch and would love more insight form anyone who cares to share!
Thanks so much
I to was a very mellow happy person. let me tell you that without a support system in place for you, you to will change into a negative person that is scared. You need to keep living your life. You do not and should not spend every minute with this man. You have a baby on the way and you and the baby are the most important not what he is feeling. He needs to work his program or you are headed for a lifetime of misery and the happy you person you are will no longer be. get help for yourself before it is to late.