Originally Posted by
WobblyBob 
hello this is my first post. my girlfriend is still liveing with her AH and she is expecting crude questions about our r/ship in front of her kids. What does she say to him? she is getting the strength to move out but he is finding ever more nasty things to say. her son wont even speak to his AD ignores him totally. she is ready to walk out tonight with kids if he wont shut up! help
Hey WooblyBob. Glad you found us.
PS You are exacerbating the situation by being an outsider in marriage problem. Put yourself in the kid's place. Screwed up Mom. Screwed up Dad. Mom sleeps with Stranger when she's not with Dad. Poor kid probably can't figure out which one of you to talk to!!!
So if you're asking for help, here's my advice. You need to step aside until this lady is no longer someone's wife. Do what you can to keep the peace, but butt out. Where I come from, I could make you wish that you had had a Happy Meal instead of my Wife.
Just some friendly advice. Good luck..