Painthorse60: You wrote, in another thread "All of a sudden he's going every single night AND giving a woman that lives nearby a ride each and every time. I can't figure out why all of a sudden she's become incapable of driving herself. She's calling my husband every day to set up their nightly rides together and it's driving me nuts."
Something is not right here. The behaviour, the rages, the shutting you out, etc...you must feel terrible. I know that you don't deserve this. Can you seek a counselor to help you sort your feelings out and perhaps see your way through to a resolution that works for YOU?