I just cant seem to do it........
(sigh) I just can't seem to do it. Last night when I got home my hubby was not there. He has been going to a bar every night after work for a few hours and then coming home drunk. I couldn't help myself ask him where he had been. I knew where he was. I just can't seem to ignore this behavior that I think is so wrong. He was very defensive and told me that he could go where he wanted and what did I want to do about it. He asked me do you want me to leave? And I said yes. I was able to end it there and walk away. But I can't seem to ignore this behavior when I think it is so wrong. I know it doesn't do any good to talk to someone when they have been drinking, but lately that would mean that I never talk to my hubby at all. I know I have to break the pattern, but its not fair that he gets to be so irresponsible. I am so discouraged with myself and my situation. Today I feel like I haven't made any progress and hopeless. Help?