My exah went missing for two days and didn't show up for work (which is out of character even for his addict mind)...apparently just a drop in the bucket in comparison to the above...well, I had a fit...filed a missing persons and everything. Thought he was dead somewhere because a dealer got to him, he od'ed,....you name it I thought it. I mentally worked out how I would manage to plan his funeral after he is found. That was enough for me.
His father ended up seeing him walking down the street by a Diner his father frequents in the mornings. He acted like we were the crazy ones for being so worried.
IMHO...No wife should have to think that way on a regular basis. No wife should have to keep their husband at arms length just so she doesn't get close enough to get hurt again. A marriage should be about two people coming together to share their life together not one person wanting to share their life and the other one running off doing G** knows what.