OMG!! Two months!!! How did he eat? Where did he sleep? Did you file a report?
I was MIA for a little over 3 months once. Managed to eat, when I wanted to, booze and drugs were more important. Managed to find a place to crash here and there.
Yes, my folks and husband filed a report, you see I was already past the age when the Doctors had said I would be dead.
After that episode was when my ex husband said no more, and my folks also said NO MORE. If I called, they hung up, and if I came to the door it was closed in my face. Took me another 2 1/2 years to find recovery, and the last 1 1/2 years were on the street.
So......................he is doing what addicts do. The only reason I said FILE was to CYA. Things are different now than they were back in '78 and '79 and a spouse or SO is one of the first peeps law enforcement looks at if there are suspicious circumstances.
Have you been able to find an Alanon or Naranon meeting yet and attend one?
Love and hugs,