Bill W wrote once:
only by being willing to take advice and accept direction could we set foot on the road to straight thinking,solid honesty,and genuine humility.
A sponsor sometimes tells us things we do not want to hear.We`re alcoholics,and alcoholism is a illness and one of the things about it is we don`t like being told what to do.My sponsor can see things about me I cannot,and I need to listen to my sponsor.History has proved he was right.The only time I would not listen to him is if he wanted me to do something immoral,or illegal,or if it hurt someone.He would not ask me to do that either.
I suggest you do as your sponsor requests and then talk with her.