What am I missing from having a sponsor?
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. When I first started AA it was explained to me that a Sponsor is a guide. A person to help me understand what was in the Big Book of AA and how to apply it in my life.
So at 3 years, when she STRONGLY SUGGESTED that I start attending Alanon regularly in addition to my AA, I did, only because I was still into 'people pleasing' when it came to my sponsor.
When I got to Alanon, what I heard made sense, however, was fearful I might be missing something. Leaving my recovery to my own understanding without guidance was just a "NO-NO" for me. So I found an Alanon sponsor that was a double winner.
I have learned from having a sponsor and being a sponsor that my understanding is much better when I am working with another who came before me, and also had a sponsor.
The Guidance was invaluable for this alkie/codie.
Your choice, but I do believe you will benefit greatly from a sponsor.
J M H O
Love and hugs,