I am not a social person either. I used in order to be comfortable around people. Well, that'sjust one small reason. I have been in a support group almost 2 years. I still have days when it is very hard for me to say a word. He said he will go. A seed could be planted. But as you know it is his choice to use. It is your choice to take care of you. We can not love someone into recovery. I truly wish we could. I have some loved ones myself that continue to choose to use. It is heartbreaking. Prayers are with you both.