sorry, didnt read the last one. so your wondering about the lifestyle of living with someone who is a felon? If he does what he needs to do he will be out from under it eventually right? But what if he doesn't take care of it. You could start thinking about your options? Which at this point it probably seems like there aren't many but there are. and you will find them in time. even if he does deal with it it's going to take some time to get back on track. I know this probably doesn't really help...sorry..hang in there.