Callie, I'm worried about you more than him, since you're the one I know and I think you are suffering a lot here. I think you should give the codie meetings a try. You'd get a lot of support and concrete advice about addiction and how to decide what you should do in response to addict behavior. Do you have Codependants Anonymous, or something like that in your area? You're intelligence and honesty about your situation would make you a natural for that group. You'd probably have fun and make some close friends too. I wish you lived in my area, I would love to meet you and take you to a meeting one day. You seem like you would be fun to hang out with.:codiepolice
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