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Your children sound very well grounded and I'm sure that it's because of the love and guidance they received from you.
You write beautifully and are obviously a very intelligent woman. You sound so proud of those kids.....and you should be. But be proud of YOU too! You had a hand in their success as well!
I have no doubt that you will figure your way out of your current situation.
Your sense of humor will pull you through. Don't lose that!
gentle hugs