Thanks everyone!
I really appreciate your responses. I also think that since I have been in the program I am changing. Maybe his responses would not have had the same affect on me a month ago. I don't know. I just really felt he was being very shallow and self-centered. And that isn't the husband I know.
But you are right. He doesn't understand the disease. (He thinks he does, but he really doesn't.) I am going to ask our therapist about it this week during my individual session.