Danielson- I felt like people looked at me weird for a long time in AA too, but as I have learned more about my codependency and addiction... my reality is not necessarily what is actually going on. My mind can create a lot of DRAMA!
I am sorry that guy singled you out like that. That really was very inappropriate. Have you gotten a sponser? If so I would talk to them about how you felt about it. AA members are just people with faults....