Well as some of you know, my husband is in rehab for alcohol. Yesterday we had a family therapy session via telephone. Needless to say, it did not go well. It just ended up in a big fight. And the end of the hour, his therapist recommended that we write each other a letter. But how can I write any kind of positive letter, when there has only been negative for so long. I know that I have to let the past go, but there are so many times he wasn't home on the weekends, and I don't know where he was, or what he was doing. How do I let things go if I don't have any resolution to them! Do I just say fine, whatever you did, you did and it doesn't matter anymore. Wheres the accountability in that? & what do I write in a letter to him? I can't even figure out how to start it! ~Any advice?
