I have alot of divorced woman friends rose and I would feel really horrible if my husband was to pick my gf's for me or not let me see them just because they had an unfortunate marriage that didn't work.....sounds very shallow to me..I'm sorry this has happened to you. Call your friend when hubbies not around (hers)) and get her take on the situation. Sounds like there must be a trust issue in that relationship...Big hugs, Bonnie