I was another Nancy Drew accomplice! Stopping snooping was really tough for me - but paid off eventually with incredible serenity. Besides, it gave me something to focus on instead of what they are doing - work on me not snooping.
I was taught:
1. It isn't my business. (hold a hula hoop around your waist - and then let go and drop it to the floor - anything outside the hula hoop is not my business - helped me!)
2. I will find out whatever I need to know - when I need to know it - without any effort on my part.
We've all been there - just part of the disease for me.
Love in recovery,
Jody Hepler