Originally Posted by
FormerDoormat 
Has he apologized for the hurt he's caused you? I understand your motives for wanting to reconcile with your husband, but what's changed? Richard was my best friend, but he wasn't good for me. It wasn't a healthy relationship. I did all the giving and he did all the taking.
Written words were no more powerful than spoken words when I tried to get Richard to "see the light."
No, my exbf has never apologized. He's not good for me either. I needed to write out my wrongs for myself. Probably shouldn't have mailed it, but that's over. I did all the giving and I guess I just take the experience for what is was. I need to see the light more than he does.