Thanks Everyone for your responses! My husband has been very supportive in helping out with additional things around the house. And it is good to hear that it is not a "sin" to want to spend time with him or my friends instead of a meeting anytime I have spare time. (Fortunately my friends do not drink for the most part!)
I do have a hard time communicating my feelings and setting boundaries. I am also working on my codependencing with my therapist while doing these steps. So maybe having an honest conversation with my sponsor is appropriate. I always want to live up to everyone's expectations. (At least my twisted version of what I think they are.) I think that is part of it. She has clearly laid out her expectations, which are one or more meetings everyday. But I think that in order for me to stay sane I need to talk to her. I have four meetings that I am commited to and always attend, and if she can be happy with me doing those plus any others my schedule always for I think I could feel better about it!
Again, thanks everyone. I am really grateful that I found this site.