Sweetheart, I am so sorry. God, I've been in your shoes, where all these people around me knew and nobody told me. They just left me hanging out there.
It's terrible what he did to you. There is no excuse. People who go outside the marriage before it's over, I just don't get it. The pained ones they leave behind. I doubt either cares, that's the thing. She doesn't care about the pain that you're feeling and he obviously doesn't.
:ghug2
They deserve one another. Period. You will see that someday and be so thankful that you didn't stay with him.
I was engaged (not married,) to a man who cheated on me with one of my friends. He was a cruel man. Had I stayed with him, I probably would have ended up dead by suicide or sheer mental anguish. He was a sexual deviant. He was a compulsive liar.
He's now married to that woman. And I thank God every that that I didn't end up with him. I met another man and had a beautiful baby and every time I look at her, I thank God again.
Good riddance to men (and women) like that. They have no heart, or soul.