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Sorry for the pain he's put you in with this new information. What others said is important: keep the focus on you, as hard as that might be right now. The pain WILL diminish over time, and you can begin to look towards to your future.....a future that can be whatever you want it to be........If it helps, I know you are a caring, loving person who did not deserve this, sending hugs and good thoughts you way. --Rica