Originally Posted by
mistercm 
So now she wants me be her taxi cab, take a day off work, and drive her too all of these places, that the Doc said she doesn't need to go....
Where do I draw the line in actually helping her?
I saved this quote I read here at SR:
"doing something for someone that they cannot do for themselves is love, doing something for someone that they can and should do for themselves is enabling"
I'm taking liberties with that quote, but her attempting to do something she doesn't need to nor should, and asking you to help her with that definitely sounds like manipulation to me. She wants an enabler but please don't let it be you.