(((This)))
I am so sorry you are having to go through that. I understand how you feel. I had to make my hubby leave the house because of the pills.
We have to take care of us because noone else will.
We did not cause this
We can not cure this
We can not control it
I have had to set boundries on what I will allow in my home. I wrote hubby a email last night. I said first that I still loved him and hoped we could work things out. I said that Hydrocordone & muscle relaxers have no place in our home and if he wants his family and life back he will have to seek alternative pain managment for his back such as topical patches, injections etc.
I said if he chose to continue Hydrocordone & muscle relaxers he was on his own.
I don't expect an answer because he's still on pills right now. At his rate of consumption though he will be out of them soon and can't refill them until mid June. Thats when we will see how this is going to pan out.
I'ts sad when pills are preferable to a wife, home and family.
Teggie