Originally Posted by
GiveLove 
You will leave when you are ready, and not one second before. Same with all of us.
Or he will leave (one way or another)..........
I guess God did for me what I could not do for myself....exAH left our home and then a few years later,divorced me. I'm still coming to terms with it,so please do not beat yourself up over thinking you are "the only one".
Sorry you are struggling.....I guess it takes what it takes. Fortunately, I have a very patient and loving HP (God) that doesn't seem to mind a bit. He's still here with me.
(fwiw,I understand the financial thoughts. HE is still functioning at work (up until recently when he sold his business,he was the boss) but I have not been employed (for pay) for 26yrs. At 54yrs.I may get a job,but a "career" seems a bit unlikely. But then again, who knew that I would find myself in THIS situation?!)
hugs to you