Some other positive updates..
My job just gets better and better. I've formed an extremely close bond with my boss. She is an amazing individual who keeps me humbled when it comes to all I've had to deal with. She's lost two son's. One to suicide several years ago and one to a car accident. She's managed to keep her sanity and grow as a person. If she can do it, I most certainly can. We have the same work ethic and life ethic. I look forward to going to work every day. Okay, well not every day, but most days. lol
I don't think it was an accident that we have come in to each other's lives. I am able to greatly decrease her work and stress load, which is what she desperately needs, and she is giving me perspective, and knowledge. Her big motto is "Pay it forward" every time I thank her for anything, she says, "don't thank me, just pay it forward". Which is what I try and do.