whatnow2:
i'm hesitant on this one because i'm just not familiar with bulimia. But you did make a very clear boundary. To just make her clean it up and "give her one more chance" is music to the addict's ears. I say play hardball by giving her the choice of going into treatment or living somewhere else. And if she decides its going to be treatment, it has to be as quick as possible....
IMHO
PS - sounds like you got some good recovery going -