(((Teggie)))
Welcome.
My AH's DOC was codeine it turns out. We have NOT had a good marriage even before we got married (don't get me started)! Set your boundaries, work on you! At least you know now what you're dealing with.
I have not had a good experience with pain-killers. I have not had a partner, a friend, any intimacey, etc. in years. I have a man who lives in his own world who cannot see or admit to his contribution in the demise of our marriage. Keep your eye on what you want for YOU! He might change tomorrow, but chances aren't good about that. Only
you can decide. I know that sounds frustrating in a way, at least it did for me - I wanted answers when I got here. But, it's my life, my choices - just like it's your life and your choices. We are all here for you tho!