WOW! What a fabulous post! Thank you so much for sharing.....
I too have come along way in reent months.....by changing some of my own behaviours it has made an immense difference to not just my own happiness but my A H's behavious and we are all so much calmer and happier :0)
I am still learning and still have a long way to go but we are on the right road.
Shivaya with the communication (or lack of)...you sound like you are where we were about 6 months ago! My husband and I have learned to communicate with kindness and respectability.....we did this by attending several very difficult sessions with my husbands physcologist! Immensly hard to walk through the door but I am so so glad we did as we wouldn't be where we are today if we hadn't.....
We still both have a long way to go but life is generally happy and we really look forward to the weekends instead of dreading them as we had for a long time......
I wish everyone well on their continued journey...
Again thank you for sharing it was great to read your experience :0)
All the best PHIZ :0)