Even tho he is at work, I must let you all know, he is mega drunk at work, always is, was out the door 6:30 a.m. today to get a good start on drinking (drinks first thing a.m.). He's very close to losing his job, doesn't think anyone knows (how can they not). I guess that's part of the insanity too. I am keeping the focus on me, no offense, could not care what happens to him (that's up to him to decide), it's just that when he's like this, I really start losing my patience, and I'm tired of removing myself from the situation.