Once I got out of my son's way, he soared. Without me asking all the questions and suggesting this and suggesting that, he does it all right for himself. I sure wish I had done this earlier, lol. If he does slip, I have to be strong enough to just step back and say good luck buddy, you know what to do. I think of slips often, no I'm not a pesimist (sp) just getting MYSELF ready to "NOT ACT". I never realized that I too had to work a program to be happy and stay the heck out of the way. Mr. Rahsue has a hard time dealing with me saying "I don't know" or "it's not my business" alot more than I used to. It feels really good to not be in the thick of it all. lol