Well My Dear Friends at SR,
I've got to say that I am eternally grateful for this website!!! Thanks to each and every one of you for your replies.
Warren, thank you so much for your genius opinion!! Yes, I suppose I am "cleansing my brain" and therefore my AH is correct about the brainwashing! If I only could have said that to him last night....not that it would have made a difference...
I'll use it if I ever get accused of being "brainwashed" again!
In my opinion...
....all of you here at SR!
Shivaya