Hope4 -- Oh My God ---- your posting is frightening! Not only do I have to worry about where I'm going to live, how I'm going to support myself & my daughter, where I'm going to get a job, how I'm going to sell the house, pay the bills, etc. -- now I have to think about this!!!
Of course, my AH says he has never "cheated" on me, but I never really believed that, and after reading numerous postings about what crack addicts do on a binge, I for sure don't believe him. The thought I was ever intimate with him is sickening to me and makes me want vomit!!!!!!! I so much wanted to believe him that I always gave him the benefit of the doubt where infidelity was concerned, but I think I've always known in the back of my mind he cheats - why should he be any different than any other crack addict when cheating seems to be what crack addicts do! (I guess some things are just harder to admit to yourself than others.
Boy, this "disease" doesn't leave any stone unturned does it?)
Your friend is in my thoughts and prayers.