I have tried countless times to moderate. Things like trying only at weekends, just some wine with dinner, only a few beers. But after time the amounts go up, the number of days I can drink go up, and then one night I'll go out of control and screw everything up again.
I also love good food and wine. But I love keeping my wife and family happy more. I know I'm only on 7 days but I'm keeping my priorities completely focused in my mind.
We had a little party thins weekend, I drank non-alcoholic beer and still had as good a time as ever.