understanding here
Whenever he's talking to me and says something really sweet, I always wonder if someone else is there.
Don't know if I did that right but OMG, I can totally relate to that.
My XAH just drove off with my two young (3 and 5) children and will have them for four days. He has completely blown them off for the last 6 weeks, almost no phone contact and NO physical contact. Easy for him since he moved out of town a few months after we separated (when I told him I would only stay in the marriage if he sought professional help--nosiree, he declined).
Yet the children are beside themselves with joy about seeing Daddy, sickening really.
I have a terrible time worrying while they are away. And I also am POSITIVE he manages to call everyone in his family while he has them, so they think he's father of the year, I am a b$%^ for leaving him.
Obviously, I have no wisdom to offer here but some hugs and understanding.